In a perfect world there would be no war, you would have all the money and possessions you needed and no doubt enjoy excellent health, a great social life and be happy all of the time.
Many of you might want to modify this list somewhat as everybody pretty much has a slightly different notion of what 'perfect' means.
Of course we don't [yet] live in a perfect world.
But we do experience times when things are pretty darned good.
Looking back, there's often a memory of some good things happening.
However, what if you changed 'perfect' to 'ideal'?
Perfect means there's nowhere to go; th pinnacle has been reached and so being in a perfect world might mean that life is flat lined somewhat.
However in an ideal world, not everything is ideal - it's a concept, something to aim for.
Often your life can be better any time you choose, it's often an attitude that makes all the difference. You can choose how to respond to an event. At least, if you are willing, you can train yourself to respond to what might be an upsetting event, so that your emotions don't take over.
Remember it's not the event that causes you to be upset, but your response to it. By learning to change behaviours such as this, you can begin to live an ideal life. This is just one 'secret' key that will unlock those doors to a better life.
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